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1. Introduction – I Wanted to Be Good at Everything

When I was young, I wanted to be good at everything.
Whether it was studying or sports, I had a hard time accepting a version of myself that wasn’t good enough.
But as I got older, the world started asking for specialization.
And I had to face moments where I simply had to let some things go.

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2. Turning Point – Trying Not to Regret

Whenever I was asked in personality tests or job applications if I’ve ever regretted anything from the past,
I confidently answered, “No, not really.”
I believed I was someone who lived without regrets.
But slowly, that belief started to crack.
The missed chances, the wrong timing, the moments where I thought, “If only I had tried a little harder…”

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3. A New Way of Comfort – Journaling and the Parallel Universe

So I write journals.
To remember who I was, to understand myself, and to gently let go.

Recently, I found a new way of comforting myself.
I chose to believe in the parallel universe theory.
Maybe I couldn’t do it in this world,
but perhaps another version of me did it in a different one.

That thought alone lightens me up a little.
So that this version of me doesn’t have to regret,
I trust that somewhere out there, another me is doing it for me.

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🌌 What Is the Parallel Universe Theory?

The Parallel Universe Theory suggests that there are countless other universes outside of our own.

Each universe unfolds with different choices and different outcomes —
a whole other version of life.

Maybe the other “me” out there
took the opportunity I missed,
and did the things I couldn’t do here.

This isn’t just a scientific concept.
It can also be a gentle psychological tool —
a way to process regret and find peace.

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